Over the past year i get questions about me working and not working....
-have you found a job yet?
-what are you looking for?
-don't you get bored not working
ETC ETC ETC....
Biggest pet peeve over the last year is questions about me and getting a job.
For one... its none of anyone business, but I felt as if i wrote this post out I would feel a little better and release from negativity from people.
I got a job at a tanning salon at the age of 15 and worked until after I graduated High school when I found a great great great job, I worked at Classic Products (Bowling Distributor) for 5 years & if you read "Our Story" you would know that's how I met Tevis. && if you also have read through Tevis' Story you will better understand why i moved to the Indy area and that I have not been working since march of last year. MY CHOICE. MY DECISION!
I was comfortable at my job I had, i loved my customers and was good at what I did. So when it came time to look for a job i always had a bad attitude about it. I lived off my tax money and savings all last year and of course Tevis helps and my parents help. I do not have that many bills, its really no big deal that Tevis takes care of me. If he didn't like it he would make me get a job! I was being picky about a job and when I did have interviews for jobs i was really into obviously it never worked out. So i decided to go back to college, figured I have a great support system, Tevis, and more stable in life. I started Online classes @ harrison college last September && let me tell you something, I spend HOURS & HOURS on school work. With lots of talks with Tevis, there was no need for me to find a full time job, til school was done. I may need a part time job but things have been fine money wise, so i figure once we move we will see how money will be and we will make the decision if i need a part time job or not until I am done with school. Our goal is for my to fully focus on school and not waste my $35,000.
I do not get bored sitting at home, because I just don't sit at home. Yeah i have my tv junky nights, but its not every night. I cook, do dishes, clean, do laundry, take care of tevis, we have delaney every other weekend, school work, & take care of myself. Tevis is a full time jobs sometimes, use to be lots of sleepless nights. Things are getting better there, thankfully. & Once we move, i will have even more cleaning and responsibilities and even outside work. So me not working, isn't such a bad thing. I am thrilled i am going to be a home owner and love being a house wife to Tevis.
Come one who wouldn't love having all the flexibility? I can go get my nails done whenever( thanks to Tevis ), i can meet up with friends, have lunch dates, dinner dates, Go see my parents up north almost whenever, go bowl, if Delaney needs us, we are there in a heartbeat, go on random weekend trips or plan a vacation without work getting in the way..ETC ETC. So ya see... not working isn't bad!!
I love not working..end of story. If i need to MAN UP and get a job I will. I just don't don't think people should sit and complain or judge about me. My life My Decisions My Choices. You can complain if your paying my what little bills I have then you can talk ALL YOU want.
Once i am done with school & get my degree which will be Medical Reimbursement Technology. I will be able to work in insurance companies & do medical coding and billing, I could even work from home which is my ultimate goal. Who wouldn't love working from home!!!!??!? So yea see, i have a goal, i have a game plan, I know what i want to do. I wont be jobless forever, and if that's my decision right now? Stand by my side don't criticize ...because we are all human, and not everyone is perfect.
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| seen this on Google. CANT WAIT TO BE AN AUNT! |
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| my alarms are set for the week! Got out this morning :) |
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| Love my new Workout Tank Top |
| Delaney's First Grade Spring pictures! |
Its Monday & A new week. Got my alarms set and going to get out there this week and run/walk Taking my sweet time getting the hang of this running thing because i have time to work at it slow! Still don't know how i am going to be able to run longer then 5 minutes without stopping LOL.
Today i got up at 8am, got dressed and ate a little something I was out stretching and ready to go.
I used my c25k App again. and this time i only did 5 set out of the 8 I didn't want to over do it like i did last week & maybe by Friday I will be able to do all sets of 8. baby steps :)
OOOH and man cant wait to move... i hate all these lose dogs around the neighborhood.
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