Friday, December 20, 2013

25 questions before 2014!

I found this by reading Allie's blog :)

Life is a Sunset is the blog that started it, and made it a three day Link up
I decided to do it all in one post, so please don't hate me :)

I love posts like this. I am going to reflect over this past year and you will get to know a little bit more about me! Its a WIN WIN situation!

Sorta long post, but HEY its Friday, sit back and read my answers :) I was short and sweet!

 1. What am I most proud of this year? I am most proud that i have stuck with college, it can be damn hard and i have times where I want to give up. I have ONE MORE year left. I CAN DO THIS! 

2. How can I become a better _____________? I need to work on my patience...having more patience would make me a better person

3. Where am I feeling stuck? I can't say that i have felt "stuck" in 2013...Life for the most part has been great

4. Where do I need to allow myself grace? I don't really know how to answer this, I need to now be so hard on myself, and stop worrying about the small things. 

5. Am I passionate about my career? Am i passionate about taking care of me, tevis, my dogs, my house, delaney, YES i love my job!!! I feel in control and know everyone including me is ok :)

6. What lessons have I learned? Is that just because they are suppose be family, doesn't mean they wont stab you in the back! BLOOD does not always mean family! 

7. What did my finances look like? I am supported by my wonderful fiance, and we did just fine this past year. In a year or so we will be great when i find a job after i graduate college : 

8. How did I spend my free time? Well, i blog, obviously :) I love to Spend time with Tevis and Delaney, his family, my family. We bowl, go to movies, go to dinner with friends. Go go Colts football games, and Indiana pacer games :) 

9. How well did I take care of my body, mind, and soul? I am not gonna lie, sometimes i forget to focus on myself, but Tevis is doing just fine So i have been trying better to relax and live life each day to its fullest. 

10. How have I been open-minded? I am always meeting new people, moved to a bigger city has been scary, but amazing all at the same time. 

11. When did I feel most creatively inspired? i don't know how to answer this one, it comes in spurts. I just take it and run with it. 

12. What projects have I completed? TOO MANY to type. We re-did a lot in this new house of ours!!!! 

13. How have I procrastinated? my homework on many occasions, house work, cleaning out garage before winter came, OOOPS. 

14. In what ways can I re-structure my time? I need to learn how to go to bed earlier and wake up earlier. I waste most days by sleeping in. 

15. How have I allowed fear of failure to hold me back? my weight-loss is my biggest fear. I KNOW i need to lose weight and i know i will fail so i don't ever put forth effort. I am finally back on the wagon and can proudly announce in 30 days i have lost 12 lbs! I CAN DO THIS.

16. Where has self-doubt taken over? school, i have wanted to give up! I dont think i am smart enough. I KNOW I AM!!! my gpa is 3.20 and out of 15 classes taken so far i have only received 2 C's

17. When have I felt the most alive? over the summer, moving, re-doing our house! Just happy happy happy!!! Still am :) 

18. How have I taught others to respect me? I treat them with the respect i would want, so in turn i get respected

19. How can I improve my relationships? Make sure i am always open and honest. And give the effort i would want in return. 

20. Have I been unfair to anyone? not that i can think of..

21. Who do I need to forgive? (feel free to be vague in your actual post answer) no one that deserve it. 

22. Where is it time to let go? i don't quite understand this one

23. What old habits would I like to release? Just wish my anxiety habits would go away...insomnia, picking my head. things like that :/

24. What new habits would I like to cultivate? i don't know if this can be a habit, lol, but i want more confidence!!!

25. How can I be kind to myself? Giving myself more self-affirmations on a daily basis. Being positive everyday. 

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  1. What a great idea
    , I love all your answers!

  2. You are such a smart girl!! I'm very proud of all that you have accomplished!!